Deeper than the ocean?

Emotions run deep... sometimes deeper than we expect. A lot happens in life that makes one question their morals, principal, faith, goals and even their existence. When that happens should we dwell on the negativity surrounding the situation or look at it with a positive outlook? That's not the question, the question should be do you want  your life to be dark or bright?. If you like it dark then that explains the negativity surrounding you. Its always a choice when it comes to how you react to situations, you do not just fail or feel hopeless, you chose to fail and feel hopeless. Learn to identify with yourself, know your weaknesses, your strengths, no need to pretend with yourself. Be true to yourself and work towards improving that which you are not happy with. You think you are fat or unhealthy?, work out, change your diet (eat HEALTHY, don't starve yourself), you want to ace that exam? study for it! Procrastination is the king of all chaos... when you don't do what you are supposed to do, and when you are supposed to do it you start to feel the pressure and start doubting your capabilities which would lead to bad emotional state with life.

When it comes to love...emotions and confusion run even deeper. There are some who cannot differentiate between the love of a parent or sibling and the love of a significant other. Sure we all know the basics, but your significant other cannot love you like your mama or daddy. You simply cannot have your full trust in someone who never saw you walk your first step or heard say your first word and expect him/her to love you with the same pure true love of the ones who raised you. If you expect too much then you will almost always be disappointed. Everyone has baggage, we all have gone through that love that made us see things differently in love, that one love that made us realize we had rose colored glasses on and needed to take them off to face reality. Then there are those who cannot take the painful reality so they paint their own story, well if that makes you sleep at night then so be it, but always know the reality to your perfectly painted story. Love is hard, love is confusing, love is amazing, love is fascinating, love is a bunch of lies, love is beautiful and love can be ugly too... it all depends on you.